Sunday, 28 April 2013

Just spanked!



I've just been spanked.   (It's not me in the the picture  but my bottom looks very much like that right now)

I'm sitting here very gingerly on a sore bottom while Sir goes to pick up his daughter and two step kids from the mother.

Sometimes Sir surprises me.  One minute I think he doesn't "get" this DD and then the next this happens.'

I am off work this morning as I have a heavy cold (wish I had gone in now) and I just got spanked hard this morning for a number of reasons but the main one was because I kicked up a bit of a fuss because Sir agreed to pick the kids up a day early and from Thorn's place as opposed to the normal half way point.

Sir kindly reminded me that he is the boss, he will make such decisions over these three children as he sees fit and if he HAS to go all the way to her home town to get HIS daughter then he will, whether I like it or not.  He has a point.  He is the HOH and he will make the decisions.  I need to learn to just be quiet once I have expressed my opinion instead of going on and on and on and on...

He punctuated every word of his lecture with the belt and the paddle and our home made green two tails.  Ill have the marks from that thing for the rest of the week.

The spanking lasted for about 30 minutes.

It hurt. 

I cried, a lot.

(But I stayed in place)

I said I was sorry.

I promised that in future I wont make such a fuss and that I will not harp on anymore.  Once I have expressed my opinion and he makes the decision then that is the end of the story.

He warned that next time if it happens my punishment will be worse (I dread to think how much worse it could be).

And then I had corner time for 10 whole minutes. 


And now he has gone to get the kids.

Leaving me sitting (or standing) here with a very sore bottom, feeling very sorry.



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28 comments:

  1. dancingbarez28 April 2013 at 18:56

    So sorry this happened Kiwi, issues with ex's and the kids start a lot of crap over here too. It's maddening. Hope you feel better soon.

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    1. kiwigirliegirl28 April 2013 at 23:17

      Thanks db. I should just shut up when it comes to the ex and her children (only one of whom is sirs ) my tongue and stubbornness gets the better of me.

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  2. Unknown28 April 2013 at 20:59

    Ouch! I'm sorry, too! 30 minutes is a LONG spanking!

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    1. kiwigirliegirl28 April 2013 at 23:14

      The whole thing lasted about that. He stopped and talked now and then and to swap implements. But yeah it was a toughy. Sometimes I think he doesn't get DD and then this! I'll be sore for a while

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  3. Roz29 April 2013 at 01:12

    Oh Kiwi I'm so sorry. Ouch! It sounds intense and I hope your bottom didn't look quite a bad as the picture afterwards! It is so hard dealing with ex's and kids.

    I hope you feel better quickly, both from the cold and the spanking.

    Sending huge ((Hugs))
    Roz

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    1. kiwigirliegirl29 April 2013 at 04:28

      Thanks roz. IL live. I hate it that he has an ex and she has two other kids that are not his try I have to deal with them. Bit to be honest it's not benthamt. Its the fact he refuses to acknowledge she manipulated the situation so we had to travel and not her . And he gets to make all these rules for me but with her its whatever she says, goes.

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  4. DelFonte29 April 2013 at 02:11

    30 minutes! Ouch and you kept still! Hope it doesn't stay red for too long.
    DF

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    1. kiwigirliegirl29 April 2013 at 04:31

      Hi df. Oh I rolled over a couple of times but for me I was really good. It was a tough spanking I guess he felt I deserved it.

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  5. Callie29 April 2013 at 02:14

    Ouch Kiwi. Sending hugs and soft pillows your way.

    Callie

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    1. kiwigirliegirl29 April 2013 at 04:32

      Thanks callie I need all the pillows I can get.

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  6. bob 29 April 2013 at 03:48

    Sorry you got spanked so hard, hope he takes you in his arms and comforts you when he gets back.

    Bob

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    1. kiwigirliegirl29 April 2013 at 04:35

      Thanks bob . Yeah he did. Still not sure I fully deserved it but it's not up to me is it.

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  7. Anonymous29 April 2013 at 03:58

    Sorry Kiwi. I hope you can learn to let go but it has to be really hard when it comes to the kids you love and all the emotions around that.

    Feel better!

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    1. kiwigirliegirl29 April 2013 at 04:37

      Thank you susie yes it's tough a blended family. I can see he is being I
      used and it frustrates me that he doesn't see it.

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  8. maryanne29 April 2013 at 04:12

    Oh my kiwi!!! You poor thing. I will be thinking of you all day and your poor bottom. Make an ice pack? Will Sir allow that? My professor says once the spanking is over it's over and sometimes I take a freezing (from the freezer) wet wash cloth and put it over my bottom for a bit. Or sit on it. The thing with yours is you'll be so tender. I've been there but ouch, that picture looks frightening. Bless your heart. :( -m.

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    1. kiwigirliegirl29 April 2013 at 04:40

      Hi maryanne what a brilliant idea a cold face cloth. I'll try that . I'm sore still and will be for a few days no doubt. A good to reminder to behave and not overstep the line.

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    2. Rich Person30 April 2013 at 21:31

      Just don't leave it on the bed....

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  9. Aimless Rambling29 April 2013 at 10:47

    Thirty minutes, ow, if your butt looks like that, that just too ouchy for me to think about. Hope the cold cloth works.

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    1. kiwigirliegirl30 April 2013 at 02:53

      Thanks sunnygirl I notice it more now than when it first happened. Hopefully it will wear off soon

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  10. June29 April 2013 at 11:06

    I would ask you not to think of this in terms of giving in to what she wants. This is not about her. This is about a father wanting to see his children. Even though the other two may not be his biologically, if he spent any amount of time raising them, they will feel like his. I would ask you to see that he is a man of integrity, who understands how very important the presence of a strong man is in the lives of his children.

    The woman who gave birth to me, as you may know if you have read our blog, was abusive in every sense of the word. She manipulated everyone, including my father. He withstood it, to visit when she permitted it. When I was able to break away, the day that could have meant the end of my life, I had the hopes that having endured what he did to see me - to let me know in his way that he was there for me, that he would come for me, and he did.

    Your Sir is not trying to take anything away from you, or give her any undue attention. He is building trust with his children.

    (((hugs)))

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  11. kiwigirliegirl30 April 2013 at 02:57

    Thank you june. What you weren't through sounds awful. Deep down I know you are right. I need to grow up a bit over this issue . Its not easy.

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  12. Es May30 April 2013 at 06:10

    I am so sorry that you have such a sore bottom. It can be so hard to have plans changed, especially when you are sick. {{HUGS}}

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  13. Lea30 April 2013 at 22:43

    10 minutes in the corner sounds even worse than the spanking!

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  14. Anonymous4 May 2013 at 18:20

    I am actually very HAPPY FOR YOU!!! Very Happy Congratulations! He is 'getting' it and SO ARE YOU!! BIG GRin for you!!!!!

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  15. Kenzie9 May 2013 at 07:13

    Ouch! I'm sorry you have a sore butt, but I am happy that he's "getting it," and stepping up... so that's a plus side to it. :)

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  16. Rich Person9 May 2013 at 22:52

    That's pretty ouchy, but it's progress. I hope it's cooled off by now and we can get a good girl report.

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  17. Ami Starsong27 May 2013 at 09:20

    30 minutes sound just awful, and I hope you had plenty of arnica, bags of frozen peas etc at the ready. He seems to be 'stepping' up with alacrity! The idea of the 'cold facecloth' sounded good.

    Hope things are better now between you.

    Hugs

    Ami

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  18. Anonymous25 December 2013 at 06:33

    SPANKING NEVER LAST 30 MINUTES YOU BLEW THE VALADITY OF THE STORY....did I spell that right or do I need a 5 minute spanking????? CHERYL

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